We often talk a lot about giving, because one of the great Truths, one of the great laws given to us through Jesus, tells us “give, and it shall be given unto you.” Certainly, giving is one of the great expressions of life to prepare the way for the greater good that we all need and desire.

But a subject that is seldom considered is the other side of the coin, and that is receiving. This could well be one of the most difficult things for many of us, the ability to receive graciously.

When we refuse a gift that someone graciously offers us, in a way we cut off our good and deny the other person the opportunity of demonstrating his or her good through giving.

There is a spiritual law involved here. Things come to us as a result of the law of attraction, and when we refuse to receive we are cutting off that law of attraction. When another person wants to give, it is his or her desire to demonstrate through the law of giving and receiving. How many times we pray for help in some way, but when we get offers of help, so often we say, “Oh, I couldn’t let you do that!”

One of the great difficulties of being what I call the “chief cook and bottle-washer” and caregiver for my wife, Kathryn, is in accepting offers of help. It’s not that I don’t want the help, but I most often don’t know how a person could best help. I seek to graciously accept their offer of help, but I find that don’t necessarily follow up in calling the person so that they can give in the way they want to. So I may unwittingly be denying the person the pleasure of giving and perhaps also of receiving their own good.

On the other hand we have a very dear friend who, until recently, would insist on picking up the tab whenever we went out for a meal together. We felt greatly blessed by the generosity of the person, but also felt denied the opportunity of being the giver from time to time.

When we did have the opportunity to pick up the tab, our friend would resist us doing so until we said “Please, just say thank you!” So now, since our dear friend has learned to accept and graciously receive as well as to give, we all feel more comfortable in going out together.

All gifts come out of the divine flow. We are told, “Every good gift and every perfect gift comes down from the Father on high.” God is the great giver of the gift itself, so when the gift comes, no matter whose hands it may come through, we must learn to give thanks to God as the source and bless the channel through which it comes.

In the law of “give and you shall receive,” of course, there is a very subtle point. If we find that we are giving because of the joy that we get through giving, then it may be that we are not really fulfilling the law but just trading one thing for another.

One of the best kinds of giving is to occasionally let the other person do the giving because then we give way, then we give lovingly and allow him or her the opportunity of sharing in the giving. We may say of another person, “But he doesn’t have enough, and I have plenty,” so we refuse his giving, but then we cut off his good and hold him in bondage to a negative thought.

I like to think that if Jesus was walking on this earth today, he would add to the beatitudes that he has already given us to love and live by another one such as this: “Blessed are they who receive with a gracious heart, for their gift is the kingdom of heaven.”

God is Blessing You Right now!

Rev. Alan A. Rowbotham, a Unity minister for over thirty-seven years, invites you to subscribe to his free inspirational newsletter, Spiritual Solutions.

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The Law of Compensation is one of the most important and basic laws of life and has sometimes been described as “the great law.” The ancient enlightened ones called it the law of karma. The scientifically-minded may call it the law of cause and effect or the law of action and reaction. Ralph Waldo Emerson called it the law of compensation.

When Jesus talked about it, He explained it as the principle of sowing and reaping, giving and receiving, and doing unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Emmet Fox, commenting on this teaching, said, “If the average man understood for a single moment the meaning of these words and really believed them to be true, he would immediately revolutionize his whole life from top to bottom, turn his everyday conduct inside out, and he would be so changed that his closest friends would hardly know him.”

Some persons doubt the existence of such a law, because its workings are often so slow that they are not readily perceived by human understanding.

Some persons believe that since this law doesn’t seem to work consistently in the world, it must come into operation in the next world. And with this belief many persons have carried on in the face of the vicissitudes of life with cheerful courage, comforting themselves with the faith that they would get their reward in some future “heaven.”

This law of perfect justice and fair compensation permeates the activities of humankind whether we know it or not, whether we see it or not. Every day is a day of judgment, for every day of our life we are reaping the harvest we have previously sown, whether good or bad. And the law guarantees that in the long run every virtue is rewarded, every wrong is redressed – in silence, in certainty, in Divine order.

What does this law mean to you in your everyday living? It has many practical applications. First of all, knowledge of the great law should cause you to make a constant effort to keep from letting anything that is evil or negative go out from you in thought, word, or deed.

In the final reckoning, the thief steals from himself. The liar lies to himself. The person who is cruel is hurting himself, for he is attracting to himself, under inexorable law, as much pain as he is afflicting.

But in like manner, the good one does is blessing himself, and the giver is giving to himself. For he is setting into operation, in his own behalf, the law that guarantees that as he has given, so shall he receive; as he has done, so shall it be done unto him.

This is the great law of compensation. And we never understand life or the experiences of life until we grasp this real truth. Understanding this law should always bring you greater tranquillity because it is deeply comforting to know that regardless of appearances to the contrary, you will eventually be compensated through every virtue, and no good will go unrewarded.

When you really understand the workings of this great law, you know that you don’t have to hold resentment or anger toward anyone. You no longer need to feel any concern if what you have been doing for others goes unappreciated. You no longer have to harbor ill will toward those who have treated you unjustly. You can let go of all feelings of anger, resentment, injustice, or unforgiveness.

You can rest in the comfortable assurance that the law of compensation will even every score and balance every account. Whatever your would-be grievance, know that God is taking care of the situation and is working in and through the minds and hearts of all involved. Go peacefully about your business and let the law balance your accounts.

If there is something in your life that you don’t like, in order to remove it from your experience you must first uproot it from within your soul or your mental attitude. 

On the other hand, if there is something missing from your life, build it into your soul and mentality, and the law will maintain a perfect balance by making it manifest in your world.

Once we accept this great Truth, once we free ourselves of the human weakness of trying to blame circumstances and people for our troubles, then and perhaps for the first time we’re ready to stand up to life with a new-found strength.

Develop an attitude of looking for the good. Give expression to constructive, beneficial thoughts and feelings in every situation.

And don’t just do your share, go the extra mile. It is not enough to give love and friendship; give it back with an extra measure. Likewise with justice, kindness, cooperation, and devotion – give back dividends.

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